Competitive society teaches us from a very young age that the most important thing in life is to be a \u201cwinner\u201d. To be more, to have more, to do more, to always be in first place, to \u201carrive\u201d at the place most valued by the social\/cultural reference group that guides our values. When this doesn\u2019t happen, being a \u201closer\u201d brings a feeling of devaluation, of not being \u201cgood enough\u201d to deserve not only to be loved or respected by others but, worse still, not giving us the possibility to love and respect ourselves <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why don\u2019t we think that winning and losing are two inseparable circumstances of the process of learning to live, just as inhaling requires exhaling in the respiratory cycle and diastole requires systole in the cardiac circuit and flexing requires stretching so that the joints produce the movements necessary for muscular agility? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of the versions of the etymological origin of the word learn is: \u201ccontinue or find your way\u201d. Acquiring knowledge, thinking about what I\u2019ve learned, making it my own, seeing how it modifies the way I act, feeling and thinking the information that opens up new ways of understanding the world, help me find the direction I want to give my life and adjust with greater precision the meaning of my life, regardless of whether I\u2019m in the moment of winning or losing because I can always be in the moment of learning to live better. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
La sociedad competitiva nos ense\u00f1a desde muy chiquitos que lo m\u00e1s importante en la vida es ser \u201cganador\u201d. Ser m\u00e1s, tener m\u00e1s, poder m\u00e1s, estar siempre en primer lugar, \u201cllegar\u201d al lugar m\u00e1s valorizado por el grupo social\/cultural de referencia que orienta nuestros valores. Cuando esto no sucede, ser \u201cperdedor\u201d trae un sentimiento de desvalorizaci\u00f3n, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1006,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pensamientos"],"yoast_head":"\n